Let $G$ be the $6\times6$ Gram matrix of $6$ unit vectors in $\Bbb R^3$.
Can the mean of the squares of the off-diagonal entries of $G$ be $<1/5$?
Remark 1: A numerical experiment suggests that $1/5$ is the exact lower bound on the mean of the squares of the off-diagonal entries of $G$.
Remark 2: If the restriction "in $\Bbb R^3$" is removed, then, of course, one can make all the off-diagonal entries of $G$ zero.
Remark 3: If the $6$ unit vectors in $\Bbb R^3$ are chosen uniformly and independently at random, then the expectation of the square of each off-diagonal entry of $G$ is $1/3$, which is $>1/5$.