This will look like a physics question but it doesn't have anything to do with reality so its a vague math question if anything.
I recently learned about gravitoelectromagnetism which describes an approximation of General relativity that separates the gravitational field into an "electric-like" component and "magnetic-like" component. In particular we have a description of the gravitational field that looks identical to Maxwell's equations. So we can say we have the following hierarchy of theories of gravity:
$$ \text{Newtonian Gravity} \underbrace{\rightarrow }_{\text{approximates}} \text{ Gravitoelectromagnetism} \underbrace{\rightarrow }_{\text{approximates}} \text{General Relativity} $$
Now consider the same diagram but instead for electromagnetism:
$$ \text{Coulomb's Law} \underbrace{\rightarrow }_{\text{approximates}} \text{ Maxwell's Equations} \underbrace{\rightarrow }_{\text{approximates}} \text{???} $$
It's clear both Coulomb's law and Newton's law take on the same $\frac{\text{product of charges}}{r^2}$ form. Then Maxwell's Equations and Gravitoelectromagnetism both take an identical form as a system of PDEs of dot and cross product (they really look nearly identical up to a choice of constants).
The mathematical question: Is there some natural mathematical object that can fit into "???" above and is in some "natural" sense the "electromagnetic dual of general relativity"?
To be clear: I'm looking for a mathematical description of space time that probably gets curved by the presence of moving charges, and in turn causes those charges to move. I do not want this description to be EQUIVALENT to maxwell's equations, I want Maxwell's equations to appear as a low-energy "approximation" of this thing in the same way that gravitoelectromagnetism is a low energy approximation to GR. In particular I expect that this description should result in the same number of PDEs to describe a spacetime metric from initial conditions as General Relativity.
I believe this is not the same thing as Kaluza Klein theory because it appears KK-theory is EQUIVALENT to Maxwell's equations and we are looking for a system of field equations that Maxwell's equations approximate.
I also do not believe this is described by string theory, since that attempts to generalize the problem by merging with quantum field theory which is not the goal here.
Has such a system of PDEs been described/Is there a natural such system?