Are there "real" vs. "quaternionic" conjugacy classes in finite groups? The complex irreps of a finite group come in three types: self-dual by a
symmetric form, self-dual by a symplectic form, and not self-dual at all.
In the first two cases, the character is real-valued, and in the third
it is sometimes only complex-valued. The cases can be distinguished by
the value of the Schur indicator $\frac{1}{|G|} \sum_g \chi(g^2)$,
necessarily $1$, $-1$, or $0$. They correspond to the cases that 
the representation is the complexification of a real one, the forgetful
version of a quaternionic representation, or neither.
A conjugacy class $[g]$ is called "real" if all characters take real
values on it, or equivalently, if $g\sim g^{-1}$. I vaguely recall the
number of real conjugacy classes being equal to the number of real irreps.


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*Do I remember that correctly?

*Can one split the real conjugacy classes into two types, 
"symmetric" vs. "symplectic"?
With #1 now granted, a criterion for a "good answer" would be that the number of symmetric real conjugacy classes should equal the number of symmetrically self-dual irreps.
(I don't have any application in mind; it's just bothered me off and on
for a long time.)
 A: It's a great question! Disappointingly, I think the answer to (2) is No :
The only restriction on a `good' division into "symmetric" vs. "symplectic" conjugacy classes that I can see is that it should be intrinsic, depending only on $G$ and the class up to isomorphism. (You don't just want to split the self-dual classes randomly, right?) This means that the division must be preserved by all outer automorphisms of $G$, and this is what I'll use to construct a counterexample. Let me know if I got this wrong.
The group
My $G$ is $C_{11}\rtimes (C_4\times C_2\times C_2)$, with $C_2\times C_2\times C_2$ acting trivially on $C_{11}=\langle x\rangle$, and the generator of $C_4$ acting by $x\mapsto x^{-1}$. In Magma, this is G:=SmallGroup(176,35), and it has a huge group of outer automorphisms $C_5\times((C_2\times C_2\times C_2)\rtimes S_4)$, Magma's OuterFPGroup(AutomorphismGroup(G)). The reason for $C_5$ is that $x$ is only conjugate to $x,x^{-1}$ in $C_{11}\triangleleft G$, but there there are 5 pairs of possible generators like that in $C_{11}$, indistinguishable from each other; the other factor of $Out\ G$ is $Aut(C_2\times C_2\times C_4)$, all of these guys commute with the action.
The representations
The group has 28 orthogonal, 20 symplectic and 8 non-self-dual representations, according to Magma.
The conjugacy classes
There are 1+7+8+5+35=56 conjugacy classes, of elements of order 1,2,4,11,22 respectively. The elements of order 4 are (clearly) not conjugate to their inverses, so these 8 classes account for the 8 non-self-dual representations. We are interested in splitting the other 48 classes into two groups, 28 'orthogonal' and 20 'symplectic'.
The catch
The problem is that the way $Out\ G$ acts on the 35 classes of elements of order 22, it has two orbits according to Magma - one with 30 classes and one with 5. (I think I can see that these numbers must be multiples of 5 without Magma's help, but I don't see the full splitting at the moment; I can insert the Magma code if you guys want it.) Anyway, if I am correct, these 30 classes are indistinguishable from one another, so they must all be either 'orthogonal' or 'symplectic'. So a canonical splitting into 28 and 20 cannot exist.

Edit: However, as Jack Schmidt points out (see comment below), it is possible to predict the number of symplectic representations for this group!
A: The recent paper, "A solution to Brauer's Problem 14" by John Murray and Benjamin Sambale, – J Algebra 621 (2023) 87-91, is relevant to this question. It gives a way of counting the number of characters with Frobenius-Schur indicator +1 just by counting solutions of $g_1^2\dotsm g_n^2=1$ with $g_1,\dotsc,g_n \in G$.
A: A standard strengthening of "real element" is "strongly real element".  An element is strongly real if it is conjugate to its inverse by an involution, or equivalently, if it is a product of involutions (equivalently, it sits nicely inside a dihedral group).
The quaternion group of order 8 shows that this strengthening is distinct: the only strongly real element is the identity, but Q8 has 4 representations with Frobenius–Schur indicator +1.
However, in:

Gow, R. "Real-valued and 2-rational group characters."
  J. Algebra 61 (1979), no. 2, 388–413
  MR2222410
  DOI:10.1016/0021-8693(79)90288-6

some inequalities relating the two ideas are given as well as a few reasonably strong results. If the Sylow 2-subgroups are dihedral or large enough semi-dihedral, then a quaternionic representation exists iff a non-strongly real but real element of odd order exists (theorems are spread out in the paper).  In the case of a 2-nilpotent group (the last section) more precise relationships are given, with the number of quaternionic reps being a mixture of the number of strongly and weakly real elements.
Beware of wanting to generalize the real case too broadly.  An F-rational character is a C-irreducible character whose values are in F.  An F-rational element is an element conjugate to the correct powers given the (cyclotomic) Galois group of C/F.  In p-groups for odd p, the F-rational classes are 1–1 with F-rational characters, but not in general for 2-groups or groups of odd order.
