I don't have an answer, but I do have an idea for how a proof could go. I would make this a comment, but it is too long.
(i) Prove that every 2-strongly connected digraph (i.e. remains strongly connected after the deletion of any vertex, or equivalently, by Menger's theorem, for every pair of vertices x,y, there are two internally disjoint x,y-paths and two internally disjoint y,x-paths) has the property that for every ordered triple of vertices u,v,w there is a uw-path that contains v.
(For graphs, this is a standard application of Menger's theorem, but the same proof doesn't seem to hold for digraphs.)
BEGIN ADDENDUM: The reason I couldn't see how to prove (i) is because it is not true. See the figure on page 2 of "About Some Cyclic Properties in Digraphs" by Heydemann and Sotteau. They refer to the property that for every ordered triple of vertices u,v,w there is a uw-path that contains v as "property (T)". They point out that Thomassen proved (Theorem 2 in "Highly connected non-2-linked digraphs") that for every k, there is a k-strongly connected digraph having the property that there are 2-vertices which are non contained together in a cycle and thus property (T) fails.
Of course, this doesn't rule out proving that in a 2-strongly connected digraph on n vertices there is a central vertex, but perhaps even this will be challenging to prove.
I suppose the only takeaway from all of this is that you can at least focus on proving your conjecture for 2-strongly connected digraphs.
END ADDENDUM
(ii) For undirected graphs there is the concept of a block-cut tree (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biconnected_component). Basically, this allows you to partition the graph into 2-connected "components" keeping track of the connections between those components. I don't know the definitive reference for the analogous concept in digraphs, but this paper might be it ("Strong k-connectivity in digraphs and random digraphs" by Reif and Spirakis)
(iii) Every vertex weighted tree T with weights between 0 and 1/2 and summing to 1 over all vertices has the property that there is a vertex v such that every component of T-v has weight at most 1/2 (the unweighted version is a well-known fact https://math.stackexchange.com/questions/1742440/you-can-always-delete-a-vertex-from-a-tree-g-such-that-the-remaining-connected and the weighted version has basically the same proof).
(iv) Now either there is a 2-strongly connected subdigraph with $\Theta(n)$ vertices and we are done by (i), or every 2-strongly connected subdigraph has order o(n) and then use (ii) and (iii) to get the desired central vertex.