Let $\pi_1, \pi_2$ be two $k$-dimensional subspaces of $\mathbb R^n$. Using elements of the orthogonal group $O(n)$, how much can we simplify $\pi_1, \pi_2$? Certainly there always exists $A \in O(n)$ such that $A \cdot \pi_1$ is the span of the first $k$ canonical bases, but this doesn't say anything about $A \cdot \pi_2$.
More precisely, I'd like to know if there is a standard, well-known fundamental domain of the $O(n)$-action on $Gr(k, n) \times Gr(k, n)$, given by $A \cdot (\pi_1, \pi_2) = (A \pi_1, A \pi_2)$. Since $\dim Gr(k, n) = k(n-k)$ and $\dim O(n) = n(n-1)/2$, the quotient space should have the following dimension: $$\dim \frac{Gr(k, n) \times Gr(k, n)}{O(n)} = 2k(n-k) - \frac12 n(n-1) = -2 \left( k^2 -nk + \frac 14 (n^2 - n) \right)$$ This is a quadratic expression in $k$, and it is a positive number when $n - \sqrt n < 2k < n + \sqrt n$. (For example see this) Outside this range, the quotient space should be a discrete collection of points. Within the range, $O(n)$ shouldn't be able to exhaust the degrees of freedom of $Gr(k, n) \times Gr(k, n)$, and thus the quotient space should have extra degrees of freedom. As a simple example, $(k, n) = (2, 4)$ will produce 2 degrees of freedom and $(k, n) = (1, 4)$ will produce 0 degrees of freedom.