Let $A$ be an abelian variety over $\overline{\mathbb{Q}}$. We work up to isogeny (i.e., Hom sets are tensored with $\mathbb{Q}$). I am looking for a reference (and ideally, a short explanation) for the following statement (or, if wrong, for its correct version):
Claim: Let $\phi:A \to A^*$ be a polarization (in particular, a symmetric isogeny). Then $\phi$ induces a non-degenerate alternating pairing $\langle-,-\rangle:H_1(A,\mathbb{Q}) \times H_1(A,\mathbb{Q}) \to \mathbb{Q}$ on the degree $1$ singular homology of $A$.
Such a pairing is equivalent to an anti-symmetric isomorphism $\psi:H_1(A,\mathbb{Q}) \to H_1(A,\mathbb{Q})^*$. The thing that puzzles me is that $\phi^*=\phi$ but $\psi^*=-\psi$. This might have to do with the way in which $A^{**}$ is identified with $A$ or with the way in which the pairing is defined, but I am not sure: if the functor $(-)^{**}$ on abelian varieties is isomorphic to the identity, and if the functor $H_1(-,\mathbb{Q})$ from abelian varieties to $\mathbb{Q}$-vector spaces is faithful and exact and preserves duality, and if $\psi$ is the image of $\phi$ under $H_1(-,\mathbb{Q})$, then how can the symmetric morphism $\phi$ turn into an anti-symmetric morphism $\psi$? Where am I doing something wrong?