Question 1: Suppose that two hyperbolic 3-manifolds $M_1$ and $M_2$ with finitely generated fundamental group satisfy the property that for every closed geodesic in $M_1$, there is a closed geodesic in $M_2$ with the same length. Are $M_1$ and $M_2$ isometric?
Question 2: The same as question one, but suppose that we also know the corresponding geodesics have the same rotational holonomy.
We can rephrase these questions in the language of Kleinian groups, as whether the multipliers of elements of a Kleinian group determine the group.
For finite volume manifolds, it should suffice to prove that $M_1$ and $M_2$ have the same volume.
Simple Length Rigidity for Kleinian Surface Groups and Applications
proves this for Kleinian Surface groups. $\endgroup$