In Hartshorne's book 《Algebraic geomery》 p.443, the author gives an explanation of Hironaka's example on non-Kähler deformation of compact Kähler manifolds, his construction can be summarised as follows:
Let $X$ be a complex projective manifold of dimension 3, take 2 non-singular curves $c, d\subset X$ which meet transversally at 2 points $P,Q$, and nowhere else. On $X-Q$, first blow up $c$, then the strict transform of $d$. On $X-P$, first blow up $d$, then the strict transform of $c$. Glue these two manifolds together, then we get Hironaka's example$-$a Moishezon manifold $\tilde X$ which is non-Kähler.
Regarding his construction, I have 2 questions:
What if we change the projective manifold $X$ to an arbitrary compact complex manifold with the blow-up process remains the same, can we still get a non-Kähler $\tilde X$ as in the projective case, or some restrictions should be added on $X$?
Recall that, in Hartshorne's construction, $l_0$ is the inverse image of $P$ when blow up in $c$ in $X-Q$, and $m_0'$ the inverse image of $Q$ when blow up $d$ in $X-P$, and by some algebraic equivalences, he gets the conclusion that $l_0+m_0'\sim 0$ which is impossible on a projective variety. Here comes my question: is $l_0+m_0'\sim 0$ equivalent to $l_0\sim 0$ and $m_0'\sim 0$? And either $l_0\sim 0$ or $m_0'\sim 0$ suffices to imply that $\tilde X$ is non-Kähler?
Any comment is welcome.