Given $M\in M_n({\mathbb R})$ and $\ell\in{0,\ldots,n-1}$, we define $$d_\ell(M)=\sum_{j=1}^nm_{j,j+\ell},$$ where the indices are understood mod $n$. In particular, $d_0$ is the trace operator.
Let $A\in M_n({\mathbb R})$ be given. We define a map $\Delta: O_n({\mathbb R})\rightarrow{\mathbb R}^{n-1}$ by $$\Delta(R)=(d_1(R^TAR),\ldots,d_{n-1}(R^TAR)).$$ Mind that we omit $d_0(R^TAR)$, because we know in advance that it equals the trace of $A$.
Question. Does it exist an orthogonal matrix $R$ such that $\Delta(R)=(0,\ldots,0)$ ?
The requested property ressembles one for which the answer is known to be positive: find $R$ orthogonal such that the diagonal $R^TAR$ is constant (thus equal to $\frac{1}{n}{\rm Tr}A$). Both properties consist of $n-1$ linear constraints, and both are consistent with the fact that the mean value of $R^TAR$ over $SO_n$ is $(\frac{1}{n}{\rm Tr}A) I_n$. Thus the answer would certainly be positive if the stronger following statement is true.
Statement. The image of $SO_n$ under $\Delta$ is convex. True or False ?
This statement looks ambitious, since $\Delta$ is not linear, and $SO_n$ is not a convex set. But an optimistic mathematicien will say that it ressembles the Toeplitz-Hausdorff theorem about the convexity of the image of the complex unit sphere under the quadratic map $x\mapsto x^*Mx$. Note that the T-H thm is used to find an $R^TAR$ with constant diagonal.