Suppose we have a discrete group $G$ acting on a compact set $X \subseteq \mathbb{R}^d$ via measure-preserving homeomorphisms, and suppose we have a point $x$ whose orbit $Gx$ is finite (say $|Gx| = n$). Does the setup induce a probability measure on $Gx$?
Of course $Gx$ has measure 0 (outside degenerate cases) so in the most naive sense (i.e. conditional probability) the answer is "You're asking for too much." But since we have both measure and topology in our setup, it seems to me that there might be a principled way of deriving a measure on $Gx$. In particular, when $G$ is amenable, I think the stabilizer of $x$ should be a subset of $G$ with well-defined density, specifically density $1/n$. I have a sense of how this might work when you can put a neighborhood $U$ around $x$ with the property that each $y \in U$ has $|Gy| = n$, but it's less clear to me what to do when this condition fails.
I have even less intuition for the case in which $G$ is not amenable.
Are there situations in which the action of $G$ on $X$ induces a probability measure on the finite set $Gx$ that is NOT uniform? E.g., could there be an $G$-orbit of size 2 (call it $\{x,x'\}$) such that in a well-defined sense 1/3 or 2/3 (as opposed to 1/2) of the elements of $G$ fix $x$? (Here I am thinking of the "Banach-Tarski paradox for the hyperbolic plane", concerning a set $S \subset \mathbb{H}^2$ with the property that $\mathbb{H}^2$ can be expressed as the union of 2 images of $S$ or 3 images of $S$, using different symmetries of the hyperbolic plane. I would include a link but I had trouble finding one that was suitable. Maybe someone else can supply one?)