So this was a question I sort of stumbled on and realised I was quite stumped. Suppose we have two finitely generated $R$-modules $M, N$ (I have the group ring $R=\mathbb{Z}[G]$ in mind) which appear in short exact sequences
$$0\to X\to M\to Y\to 0,$$
$$0\to X\to N\to Y\to 0.$$
I know that $M$ and $N$ are indecomposable and I know that ${\rm Ext}^1(Y, X)\cong\mathbb{Z}/2 \Bbb Z$. Are $M$ and $N$ isomorphic?
If I can find a homomorphism between them which fits into a commutative diagram, then obviously this is true. But must such a homomorphism exist?