Spaces that are invariant under some contractions

Question

Let $(X,\tau)$ be a topological space. If $A\subseteq X$ we define the following equivalence relation on $X$: $$\sim_A = \{(x,y) \in X^2: x=y \text{ or }\{x,y\}\subseteq A \}.$$

Let $(X,\tau)$ be an infinite space with the following property:

If $A\subseteq X$ and $|A|<|X|$ then $X\cong X/\sim_A$.

Does this imply that $(X,\tau)$ is one of the following?

1. $(X,\tau)$ is discrete;
2. $(X,\tau)$ is indiscrete;
3. $X$ can be well-ordered with a relation $\leq$ such that $\tau$ consists of the upper sets of $(X,\leq)$.

Answer 1

For a countable space $X$ the discussed property means that $X$ is homeomorphic to $X/A$ for any finite subset $A\subset X$. Let us call this property quotient-homogeneous.

There are many quotient-homogeneous countable spaces which do not fall into the categories (1)-(3) of Dominic van der Zypen:

4) any countable $T_1$-space with a unique non-isolated pont;

5) the space of rational numbers.

It seems that many (but not all) countable ordinals endowed with the interval topology are quotient-homogeneous.

Observe that spaces of form (3) do not satisfy the separation axiom $T_1$. Maybe Dominic van der Zypen had in mind the interval topology (not the upper-set topology)? But anyway the space of rationals is a counterexample.

The space pointed by @Keith Kearnes is another (non-metrizable) counterexample.