Differentiable structures on R^3 This is for the sake of completeness(for references, understanding). 
I ask for references for proofs that:
-There is exactly one differentiable(ie $C^\infty$) structure on $\mathbb R$, upto diffeomorphism.
-Ditto for $\mathbb R^2$.
-Ditto for $\mathbb R^3$.
 A: There are infinitely many differentiable structures on $\mathbb R$ : take any homeomorphism which is no diffeomorphism (such as $x\mapsto x^3$), and you get an non-usual differentiable structure on $\mathbb R$! 
Even better : there exist uncountably many different real analytic structures on $\mathbb R$.
But this example is general : for every $k\in \mathbb N \cup \{\infty,\omega\}$, the group Homeo($\mathbb R$) acts transitively on the set of $C^k$ differentiable structures on $\mathbb R$. 
EDIT : If you want to show that up to diffeomorphism of differentiable manifold, there exists only one differentiable structure on $\mathbb R$, just remember that (more generally) all $1$-dimensional non-compact manifolds are diffeomorphic to $\mathbb R$. [this is proved in Lafontaine e.g]
A: UPDATE : I found some precise references that answer the OP's question and fill in some details in my original answer.  See the end for them.
I don't have a precise reference for the cases of $n=2$ or $n=3$, though I suspect that they could be found in Moise's "Geometric Topology in Dimensions 2 and 3".
However, I do have a nice reference for the amazing theorem (due to Stallings) that $\mathbb{R}^n$ has a unique $C^{\infty}$ structure for $n \geq 5$.  It is written up very nicely in Steve Ferry's Geometric Topology Notes.  See Chapter 10 starting on page 56.  What he proves is that $\mathbb{R}^n$ has a unique PL structure, but that is the key to the result.  The rest of the notes are also wonderful.
This theorem is surprising for a number of reasons.  For instance, it says that if $\Sigma$ is an exotic $n$-sphere for $n \geq 5$, then $\Sigma \setminus \{p\}$ is diffeomorphic to $\mathbb{R}^n$ for any point $p \in \Sigma$.  In other words, the "exoticness" is "concentrated at a point".  Of course, this also follows from the usual proof of the high dimensional Poincare conjecture using the $h$-cobordism theorem, which constructs a homeomorphism between a homotopy sphere and the usual sphere which is differentiable except at one point (that one point giving trouble due to the "Alexander trick").
Another remark that should be made is that Freedman and Donaldson proved that $\mathbb{R}^4$ has uncountably many $C^{\infty}$ structures.
UPDATE : OK, here are some precise references.  In
MR0121804 (22 #12534)
Munkres, James
Obstructions to the smoothing of piecewise-differentiable homeomorphisms.
Ann. of Math. (2) 72 1960 521--554. 
it is proven in Corollary 6.6 that two PL-isomorphic differentiable manifolds that are homeomorphic to $\mathbb{R}^n$ are actually diffeomorphic.  To make sense of this, recall that Cairns proved that differentiable manifolds have canonical PL structures; the original reference for this is his paper
MR0017531 (8,166d)
Cairns, Stewart S.
The triangulation problem and its role in analysis.
Bull. Amer. Math. Soc. 52, (1946). 545--571. 
I think JHC Whitehead might have also proven this, but I don't have a reference for that.
This reduces us to showing that $\mathbb{R}^n$ has a unique PL structure. The cases $n=2$ and $n=3$ can be found in Moise's book "Geometric Topology in Dimensions 2 and 3".  As far as the original results go, the 2-dimensional case is classical, while the 3-dimensional case was originally proven by Moise in his paper
MR0048805 (14,72d)
Moise, Edwin E.
Affine structures in $3$-manifolds. V. The triangulation theorem and Hauptvermutung.
Ann. of Math. (2) 56, (1952). 96--114. 
For dimensions at least $5$, the original reference is the following
MR0149457 (26 #6945)
Stallings, John
The piecewise-linear structure of Euclidean space.
Proc. Cambridge Philos. Soc. 58 1962 481--488.
I hope this is helpful!
