I'm searching for a counterexample for $C^*$-algebras $A$ and $B$ and essential ideals (I assume an ideal to be closed and only two-sided ideals) $I\subseteq A$, $J\subseteq B$ , such that the ideal $I\otimes_{max} J$ is not essential in the (maximal tensor product) -$C^*$-algebra $A\otimes_{max} B$. I'm not sure if my idea works:

The algebra of compact operators $K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$ is an essential ideal in the $C^*$-algebra of bounded linear operators on $l^2(\mathbb{N})$, $B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$. The reason is that $B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$ has only the closed ideals $\{0\}$, $K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$ and $B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$, thus $K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\cap M\neq 0$ for all closed nontrivial ideals $M\subseteq B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$.

But is $K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\otimes_{max} K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$ essential in $B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\otimes_{max} B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$?

I don't think so, but I'm stuck to prove that there must be a nontrivial closed ideal $M$ in $B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\otimes_{max} B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$ such that $K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\otimes_{max} K(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\cap M$ is trivial. For the proof it must be important that one takes the maximal norm-closure of $I\odot J\subseteq A\odot B$ ($\odot$ denotes the tensor product as $*$-algebras), because particularly the spatial tensor product satisfies that if $I$ is essential in $A$, $J$ essential in $B$, then $I\otimes_{min} J$ is essential in $A\otimes_{min} B$ (and here is $B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\otimes_{min} B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\neq B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))\otimes_{max} B(l^2(\mathbb{N}))$. If my ideal don't work, what else can I do? I appreciate your help.

waving$\endgroup$ – C-Star-W-Star Feb 14 '18 at 5:34