I was recently in the situation of having access to the category of $G$-modules (for some group $G$ which I had forgotten), as just a category, i.e. no monoidal structure, together with the forgetful functor to $\mathbb{Z}$-modules, and wanting to reconstruct $G$.
Alas, I could only reconstruct $\mathbb{Z}[G]$ (as endomorphisms of the forgetful functor), and apparently, there are groups $G$ for which $\mathbb{Z}[G]$ does not know $G$.
In principle, I could learn what a spectrum is and work with those instead --- would it help? I.e.,
Does the category of $G$-spectra (together with the forgetful functor to spectra) know $G$?