When I tried to construct a counterexample in my research, I encountered the following result, which should be true.
Let $m=m(n)$ be a function that grows faster than $\sqrt n$, so $m(n) = \omega(\sqrt n)$. Choose $m$ integers $a_1,...,a_m$ randomly from $[1,n]$. Then
$$\lim\limits_{n\to \infty} \mathbb{E}\left[ \frac{\#\{|a_i-a_j|,1\le i,j\le m \}}{n}\right] =1.$$ Any references to this result would be greatly helpful. Direct proof would also be very welcome.