Let $S$ be a smooth projective surface over $\mathbb{C}$. (I guess this can be more general—higher dimension, other ground fields, non-projective, maybe even singular?—and I'dd like to hear that.) Let $s \in S$ be a point. Let $\beta \colon X \to S$ be the blowup of $s \in S$. Suppose that $H^{i}(S, T_{S})$ is known for $i \in \{0,1,2\}$, as well as $\mathrm{Def}(S)$.
If I am not mistaken, the exceptional divisor $E$, which is a $(-1)$-curve, is rigid, in the sense that every deformation of $X$ also has a $(-1)$-curve. Therefore $$\mathrm{Def}(X) \cong \mathrm{Def}(X,E) \cong \mathrm{Def}(S,s) \cong \mathrm{Def}(S) \times T_{S,s},$$ where the last isomorphism is not canonical. (Rather $T_{S,s}$ is the kernel of the forgetful map $\mathrm{Def}(S,s) \to \mathrm{Def}(S)$.)
This question is about the cohomological side of the picture, i.e. $H^{i}(X,T_{X})$ for $i \in \{0,1,2\}$. My intuition says that $H^{1}(X,T_{X})$ should also increase with dimension two, whereas the obstruction space $H^{2}(X,T_{X})$ should stay the same. I've tried to fiddle around with the spectral sequence $$ H^{p}(S, R^{q}\beta_{*}T_{X}) \Longrightarrow H^{p+q}(X, T_{X}) $$ but I could not really come to the desired conclusions.
For $H^{0}(X, T_{X})$ we get the term $H^{0}(S, \beta_{*}T_{X})$.
For $H^{1}(X, T_{X})$ we get the terms $H^{1}(S, \beta_{*}T_{X})$ and $H^{0}(S, R^{1}\beta_{*}T_{X})$. Now $R_{1}\beta_{*}T_{X}$ is a skyscraper sheaf supported on $s$, and if I'm not mistaken, and vague geometric intuition makes me think that it is the tangent space $T_{S,s}$.
Finally, $R^{2}\beta_{*}T_{X} = 0$, so for $H^{2}(X, T_{X})$ we get the terms $H^{2}(S, \beta_{*}T_{X})$ and $H^{1}(S, R^{1}\beta_{*}T_{X})$.
But maybe this isn't the right way to approach the question…
So the main question is:
What are the $H^{i}(X,T_{X})$ for $i \in \{0,1,2\}$?
I've not been able to find this via google, though I guess this is pretty basic knowledge in deformation theory. But I'm pretty new to this field, so please bear with me.