Let $\mathfrak{g}$ be a complex simple Lie algebra and $\mathfrak{k}$ its complex subalgebra such that $(\mathfrak{g},\mathfrak{k})$ is a Hermitian symmetric pair; $\mathfrak{g}= \mathfrak{k}\oplus\mathfrak{p}$ is the corresponding Cartan decomposition subject to some Cartan involution $\theta$. Moreover, there is a splitting $\mathfrak{p} = \mathfrak{p}^- \oplus \mathfrak{p}^+$.
Problem: Classify all $\theta$-stable parabolic subgroups $\mathfrak{q}=\mathfrak{l}\oplus\mathfrak{u}$ of $\mathfrak{g}$ such that $\mathfrak{l}\subseteq\mathfrak{k}$ and $\mathfrak{p}^+\subseteq\mathfrak{u}$.
Motivation: In the article Dirac operators and Lie algebra cohomology. Represent. Theory 10 (2006), the authors prove that in such a case there is a Hodge decomposition for $\mathfrak{u}$-homology of a unitarizable $(\mathfrak{g},K)$-module. I am interested for which real parabolic subalgebras of some real form of $\mathfrak{g}$ there is a Hodge decomposition.