What is Gödel's pairing function on ordinals? I find many references to Gödel's pairing function on ordinals but I have not found a definition.  What is it?
 A: According to this .pdf file the definition is this:
Consider the canonical ordering on $\mathsf{Ord\times Ord}$:
$$(\alpha,\beta)\prec(\gamma,\delta)\iff\begin{cases}
\max\lbrace\alpha,\beta\rbrace\lt\max\lbrace\gamma,\delta\rbrace & \lor \\\
\max\lbrace\alpha,\beta\rbrace=\max\lbrace\gamma,\delta\rbrace\land\alpha\lt\gamma&\lor\\\
\max\lbrace\alpha,\beta\rbrace=\max\lbrace\gamma,\delta\rbrace\land\alpha=\gamma\land\beta\lt\gamma
\end{cases}$$
The pairing function, if so, $G(\alpha,\beta)=\operatorname{otp}\lbrace(\gamma,\delta)\in\mathsf{Ord\times Ord}\mid(\gamma,\delta)\prec(\alpha,\beta)\rbrace$.
A: Asaf and Joel have answered the question. Let me add a remark that expands the fact that it helps us prove that $\kappa\times$ and $\kappa$ have the same size. All the claims here can be verified rather easily. Multiplication and exponentiation are in the ordinal sense.
It is customary to write $\Gamma(\alpha,\beta)$ for the order type of the predecessors of $(\alpha,\beta)$ under the order than Asaf denotes $\prec$. For example, $\Gamma(\omega,\omega\cdot2)=\omega^2+\omega$.
An ordinal $\alpha$ is (additively) indecomposable iff $\alpha\gt 0$ and whenever $\beta,\gamma\lt\alpha$, then $\beta+\gamma\lt \alpha$. One can easily check that the indecomposable $\alpha$ are precisely those of the form $\omega^\beta$. Say that $\alpha$ is multiplicatively indecomposable iff $\alpha>0$ and $\beta\gamma\lt \alpha$ whenever  $\beta,\gamma\lt\alpha$. Then $\alpha$ is multiplicatively indecomposable iff it is $1$ or has the form $\omega^{\omega^\beta}$.
Ok, we can now state the remark; unfortunately I would not know who to credit for this observation, I think of it as folklore: An ordinal $\alpha$ is multiplicatively indecomposable iff it is closed under Gödel pairing, that is, $\Gamma(\beta,\gamma)\lt\alpha$ whenever $\beta,\gamma\lt\alpha$. In particular, $\Gamma(\kappa,\kappa)=\kappa$ for any infinite cardinal $\kappa$, which of course implies that $\kappa\times\kappa$ and $\kappa$ have the same size. Also, if $\kappa$ is uncountable, then there are $\kappa$ ordinals $\alpha$ below $\kappa$ such that $\Gamma(\alpha,\alpha)=\alpha$. Of course, all of this works well in $\mathsf{ZF}$ and all the definitions involved are absolute.

I prefer a different approach when verifying that $\kappa\times\kappa$ and $\kappa$ have the same size, one that (again) is absolute and goes through in $\mathsf{ZF}$, but only requires the use of additively indecomposable ordinals: One first checks that there is a (recursive) bijection $h:\omega\times\omega\to\omega$ with $h(0,0)=0$. Then, given ordinals $\alpha,\beta$, use their Cantor's normal form to write them as 
$$ \alpha= \omega^{\alpha_1}n_1 + \omega^{\alpha_2}n_2 + \dots + \omega^{\alpha_k}n_k $$
and
$$ \beta= \omega^{\alpha_1}n'_1 + \omega^{\alpha_2}n'_2 + \dots + \omega^{\alpha_k}n'_k $$
where $\alpha_1 \gt \alpha_2 \gt \dots \gt \alpha_k$ are ordinals, and $n_1,\dots,n_k, n'_1,\dots,n'_k$ are natural numbers. (Note that these representations are not unique, but at least one of $n_i$ and $n_i'$ is non-zero iff $\alpha_i$ appears as an exponent in the canonical form of $\alpha$ or $\beta$).
Now set 
$$ H(\alpha,\beta)=\omega^{\alpha_1}h(n_1,n'_1)+\omega^{\alpha_2}h(n_2,n'_2)+\dots+ \omega^{\alpha_k}h(n_k,n'_k). $$ 
Then $H$ is a bijection between $\alpha\times\alpha$ and $\alpha$ whenever $\alpha$ is indecomposable. And an easy inductive argument, appealing to the explicit proof of Schröder-Bernstein, allows us to use $H$ to argue that there is, provably in $\mathsf{ZF}$, a class function that assigns to each infinite ordinal $\alpha$ a bijection between $\alpha\times\alpha$ and $\alpha$.
(Of course, the existence of this class function can also be argued from $\Gamma$, using that there are $\kappa$ ordinals $\alpha$ below $\kappa$ with $\Gamma(\alpha,\alpha)=\alpha$, but this second approach is somewhat easier.) 
I found this argument a while ago, but then saw that Levy gives essentially the same approach in his textbook on set theory. Again, I am not sure who to credit for this construction, it seems to go back to Gerhard Hessenberg's 1906 book, "Grundbegriffe der Mengenlehre".
A: Define an order on pairs of ordinals $(\alpha,\beta)$ by ordering first by maximum, then by first coordinate, then by second coordinate. That is, one pair preceeds another if the maximum is smaller, or they have the same maximum and the first coordinate is smaller, or they have the same maximum and first coordinate, but the second coordinate is smaller. This is clearly a linear order, and it is a well-order, since none of these three quantities can descend infinitely. Furthermore, every proper initial segment of the order is a set, consisting of pairs with the same or smaller maximum (and indeed, the reason for using the order-by-maximum part of the definition is precisely to ensure that the order is set-like; the lexical order itself is not set-like on Ord). 
Thus, every pair $(\alpha,\beta)$ is the $\xi$ th element in this order for some unique $\xi$, we may view $\xi$ as the code of $(\alpha,\beta)$. Every pair has a unique code and every ordinal is a code.
This pairing function is highly robust and absolute, since the definition of the order is absolute to any model of even very weak set theories that contain those ordinals. Another attractive feature is that whenever $\kappa$ is an infinite cardinal (or even merely a sufficiently indecomposable ordinal), then $\kappa$ is closed under pairing, in the sense that any pair of ordinals below $\kappa$ is coded by an ordinal below $\kappa$.  This is how we know $\kappa^2=\kappa$ for well-ordered cardinals. In particular, this method of coding also works on natural numbers. 
But I'm unsure if this coding is due to Gödel or was known earlier (perhaps even Cantor?); so it may not be the answer you seek.
