An interesting question has arisen over at this math.stackexchange question about two concepts of even in the context of infinite cardinalities, which are equivalent under the axiom of choice, but which it seems might separate when choice fails.
On the one hand, a set $A$ can be even in the sense that it can be split into pairs, meaning that there is a partition of $A$ into sets of size two, or in other words, if there is an equivalence relation on $A$, such that every equivalence class has exactly two elements.
On the other hand, a set $A$ can be even in the sense that it can be cut in half, meaning that $A$ is the union of two disjoint sets that are equinumerous.
Note that if $A$ can be cut in half, then it can be split into pairs, since if $A=A_0\sqcup A_1$ and $f:A_0\cong A_1$ is a bijection, then $A$ is the union of the family of pairs $\{x,f(x)\}$ for $x\in A_0$. And this argument does not use the axiom of choice.
Conversely, if $A$ can be split into pairs, and if we have the axiom of choice for sets of pairs, then we may select one element from each pair, and $A$ is the union of this choice set and its complement in $A$, which are equinumerous.
Thus, when the axiom of choice for sets of pairs holds, then the two concepts of even are equivalent. Note also that every infinite well-orderable set is even in both senses, and so in ZFC, every infinite set is even in both senses. My question is, how bad can it get when choice fails?
Is there a model of ZF in which every infinite set can be split into pairs, but not every infinite set can be cut in half?
Is there a model of ZF having at least one infinite set that can be split into pairs, but not cut in half?
What is the relationship between the equivalence of the two concepts of even and the axiom of choice for sets of pairs?