Let $G$ be a finite group acting transitively on the finite set $X=\{1,2,\dots, 2m\}$ of cardinality $2m\ge 6$ where $m$ is odd.
Question 1. Is it true that $G$ always has a subgroup $H$ of index 2 containing the stabilizers ${\rm Stab}(x)$ for $x\in X$ ?
Answer: No. A counterexample is the alternating group $A_{2m}$ acting on $X$ for $2m\ge 6$. Since the group $A_{2m}$ is simple, it has no nontrivial normal subgroups, hence no subgroups of index 2.
Question 2. Assume additionally that $G$ is solvable. Is it true that $G$ always has a subgroup $H$ of index 2 containing the stabilizers ${\rm Stab}(x)$ for $x\in X$ ?
If the answer to Question 2 is "No", I would like to consider a special class of solvable groups $G$.
Question 3. Assume additionally that $G$ is the Galois group of a finite Galois extension $L/K$ where $K$ is a $p$-adic field (that is, a finite extension of the field of $p$-adic numbers ${\Bbb Q}_p)$, and $p>2$. Is it true that $G$ always has a subgroup $H$ of index 2 containing the stabilizers ${\rm Stab}(x)$ for $x\in X$ ?
Question 3 is related (equivalent?) to the following question:
Question 4. Let $L/K$ be a finite extension of $p$-adic fields for $p>2$ (not necessarily a Galois extension) of degree $2m\ge 6$ where $m$ is odd. Is it true that $L$ always contains a quadratic extension $F$ of $K$ ?
I expect answers "No" to all questions and would be happy to see counter-examples.