Let $p$ be a prime and let $w$ be a primitive $p$-th root of unity in $\mathbb{C}$. There is an element $e$ of order $p$ in $G=\operatorname{PGL}_n(\mathbb{C})$ where $n=pk$ and $$e=\left[\left(\begin{matrix}I_k&&&&\\&{wI}_k&&&\\&&{w^2I}_k&&\\&&&\ddots&\\&&&&{w^{p-1}I}_k\\\end{matrix}\right)\right].$$ My focus is on the elementary abelian $p$-subgroups of rank 2 of $G$. Let $E$ be such a group.
Computation shows if all the nontrivial elements of $E$ are conjugate to $e$, then $N_{G}(E) /C_{G}(E) \cong \operatorname{GL}_2(p)$.
I can't see it clearly. I observe that if $E=\langle u,v \rangle = \langle uv,v \rangle = \langle u,uv \rangle$, then a change of basis matrix will be $$\left(\begin{matrix}1&0\\1&1\\\end{matrix}\right) \, \text{or} \, \left(\begin{matrix}1&1\\0&1\\\end{matrix}\right).$$
These two matrices generate $\operatorname{SL}_2(p)$. Am I arguing along the right lines?