Consider an $n\times n$ real matrix $A=(a_{ij})$ with non negative entries. Assume that
- the sum of the three largest entries in each row is a constant $R$ (the same for all rows),
- the sum of the three largest entries in each column is a constant $C$ (the same for all columns).
Then $R$ and $C$ cannot be too different...
QUESTION: is it true that $3/4< R/C<4/3$ always?
What I know, see below, is that $R/C \le 3/2$ and that $R/C$ can get arbitrarily close to $4/3$ as the dimension grows.
NOTE: the similar problem where the sum of the two largest entries is $R$ across rows, $C$ across columns, is "Big Pairs in a Matrix", found in Mathematical Puzzles, by Peter Winkler, $CRC$ 2021. In that case $R=C$.
These examples are the best I could find, with $R/C = \frac{4\lfloor n/2\rfloor-1}{3\lfloor n/2\rfloor}$, and readily generalize to any dimension:
$$n=4,5 \quad R=7\quad C=6:\quad \left [\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 2 & 2 &3\\ 0 & 2 & 2 &3\\ 3 & 2 & 2 & 0\\ 3 & 2 & 2 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right] ,\quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 1 & 3 & 3\\ 0 & 2 & 2 & 0 & 3\\ 0 & 2 & 2 & 3 & 0\\ 3 & 2 & 2 & 0 & 0\\ 3 & 2 & 2 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right]$$
$$n=6,7 \quad R=11\quad C=9:\quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 3 & 4 & 4\\ 0 & 0 & 3 & 3 & 0 & 5\\ 0 & 0 & 3 & 3 & 5 & 0\\ 0 & 5 & 3 & 3 & 0 & 0\\ 5 & 0 & 3 & 3 & 0 & 0\\ 4 & 4 & 3 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right],\quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 2 & 0 & 4 & 5\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 3 & 4 & 0 & 4\\ 0 & 0 & 3 & 3 & 0 & 5 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 3 & 3 & 5 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 5 & 3 & 3 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 5 & 0 & 3 & 3 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 4 & 4 & 3 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right]$$
$$n=8,9 \quad R=15\quad C=12:\quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 0 & 5 & 6\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 5 & 0 & 6\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 4 & 0 & 7 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 4 & 7 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 7 & 4 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 7 & 0 & 4 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 6 & 0 & 5 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 6 & 5 & 0 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right],\quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 3 & 0 & 0 & 6 & 6\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 6\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 5 & 0 & 6 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 4 & 0 & 7 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 4 & 7 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 7 & 4 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 7 & 0 & 4 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 6 & 0 & 5 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 6 & 5 & 0 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right]$$
$$n=10,11 \quad R=19 \quad C=15:\quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 7 & 7\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 6 & 0 & 8\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 6 & 0 & 8 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 5 & 0 & 9 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 5 & 9 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 9 & 5 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 9 & 0 & 5 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 8 & 0 & 6 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 8 & 0 & 6 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 7 & 7 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right], \quad \left[\begin{smallmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 4 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 7 & 8\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 7 & 0 & 7\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 6 & 0 & 8 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 6 & 0 & 8 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 5 & 0 & 9 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 5 & 9 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 9 & 5 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & 9 & 0 & 5 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 8 & 0 & 6 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 8 & 0 & 6 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 7 & 7 & 0 & 0 & 5 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{smallmatrix}\right]$$
On the other hand, a simple argument shows that $R/C\le 3/2$ regardless of dimension: if two rows have their max in the same column, clearly that column and either one of those rows show that $C/R\ge 2/3$; if not, we can diagonalize and assume that $a_{ii}$ is the largest entry of row $i$ and $a_{ii}\ge a_{jj}$ for $i\lt j$; then one of the $n$ second largest row-entries will have to fall left of the diagonal; the column corresponding to that element will thus have two of its top entries at least as large as the top two entries of the row of that element, again proving $C/R\ge 2/3$.