I'll attempt to record a careful proof here for your first question. My apologies for any errors or inefficiencies, as I am a bit rusty. I will write $\|\,\|_j$ for the norm on $X_j$ and $\|\,\|$ for the max-norm on $(X_1\oplus\cdots\oplus X_n)_\infty$.
Writing $\Pi_0$ for the space of bounded sequences in $(X_1\oplus\cdots\oplus X_n)_\infty$, we have two seminorms on $\Pi_0$: for $x\in\Pi_0$, define
$$\|x\|_{1,s}=\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}\|x_i\|$$
and
$$\|x\|_{2,s}=\max_{1\leq j\leq n}(\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}\|x_i^j\|_j)$$
We have used subscripts to denote entries along the sequence direction, superscripts to denote the summand direction; e.g. $x_i^j$ is the $i$th element of the sequence in $X_j$. Observe that $\|\,\|_{1,s}$ and $\|\,\|_{2,s}$ essentially differ by commuting a $\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}$ with a $\max_{1\leq j\leq n}$. Thus we may write $\|\,\|_{1,s}$ as
$$\|x\|_{1,s}=\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}(\max_{1\leq j\leq n}\|x_i^j\|_j)$$
But this is just $\|x\|_{2,s}$; indeed, if we write $c^j=\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}\|x_i^j\|_j$, then for each $\epsilon>0$ and each $j$ we have
$$\{i:|\|x_i^j\|_j-c^j|<\epsilon\}\in\mathcal{U}$$
so by taking finite intersections
$$\{i:|\|x_i^j\|_j-c^j|<\epsilon\,\forall j\}\in\mathcal{U}$$
which in particular implies
$$\{i:\max_{1\leq j\leq n}c^j-\epsilon\leq\max_{1\leq j\leq n}\|x_i^j\|_j\leq\max_{1\leq j\leq n}c^j+\epsilon\}\in\mathcal{U}$$
so (by arbitrariness of $\epsilon>0$) we have $$\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}\max_{1\leq j\leq n}\|x_i^j\|=\max_{1\leq j\leq n}c^j=\max_{1\leq j\leq n}\lim_{i\to\mathcal{U}}\|x_i^j\|_j$$
and $\|\,\|_{1,s}=\|\,\|_{2,s}$ on $\Pi_0$. Finally, observe that $((X_1\oplus\cdots\oplus X_n)_\infty)_{\mathcal{U}}$ is the quotient of $((X_1\oplus\cdots\oplus X_n)_\infty,\|\,\|_{1,s})$ by the nullset $\|\,\|_{1,s}=0$, and $((X_1)_{\mathcal{U}}\oplus\cdots\oplus(X_n)_{\mathcal{U}})_\infty$ is the quotient of $((X_1\oplus\cdots\oplus X_n)_\infty,\|\,\|_{2,s})$ by the nullset $\|\,\|_{2,s}=0$; the result follows.
For your second question: I'm not sure, but I suspect that the author intends to say that it suffices to show that it suffices to show that $(Y_1\oplus\cdots\oplus Y_n)_\infty$ has property $(S)$, where $Y_j=(X_j)_{\mathcal{U}}$ and the author is swapping out notation; I suppose this works as long as the condition $\varepsilon_0(X_i)<1$ is stable under ultrapowers. Indeed, it appears that the author makes exactly that claim midway through page 439: "On the other hand, $\varepsilon_0(X)=\varepsilon_0((X)_{\mathcal{U}})$..."