Consider the Kirby diagram $ D$ given by a 2-component unlink, both dotted circles. In general, when performing a 1-handle slide over another 1-handle, the band chosen must not link any dotted circle, therefore the handle slide $D\to D'$ resulting in the diagram $D'$ below is illegal. This is because the collection of dotted circles is required to bound a collection of boundary-parallel disks (so that their removal is equivalent to the addition of 1-handles).
On the other hand, the blue dotted circle in $D'$ can be given a meaning because it bounds a ribbon disk. This is shown in Gompf-Stipsicz, 4-manifolds and Kirby calculus pg. 213 where they also extend the Kirby diagram language by allowing such kind of dotted circles in diagrams (that now will denote a ribbon disk deletion). They explicitely say that this has also the advantage of performing "illegal" 1-handle slides.
What I am looking for is a clear statement and an explanation.
1)Is it correct that we can slide dotted-circles over a dotted-circle, even if the band goes inside some dotted-circles, just by interpreting the result as deleting a ribbon disk (instead of the usual boundary-parallel disk)? If this was true the example below would be a diagram for $(\mathbb{S}^1\times \mathbb{D}^3)\#_b(\mathbb{S}^1\times \mathbb{D}^3)$ (boundary connected sum) .
- If the answer is positive, then how does this affect cancellation of 1h/2handles pairs? For example, add to $D'$ a 2-handle along a meridian to the red dotted circle. That is a pair of complementary handles, but it is not clear if we can cancel them since the blue circle enters inside the red one (and we do not slide 1-handles over 2-handles).