Consider a bump function supported in the ball of radius $1$, that is $\psi:\mathbb R^n\to\mathbb R$ such that
$\ \psi(x)>0$ for $|x|<1$
$\ \psi(x)=0$ for $|x|\geq 1$
$\ \psi\in C^\infty$.
Is it possible to find such a function $\psi$ that satisfies also one of the following conditions? For all $i,j=1,\dots,n$
$\ \displaystyle \frac{\partial_{x_i}\psi(x)}{\psi(x)}\to 0\ $, $\ \displaystyle\frac{\partial_{x_i}\partial_{x_j}\psi(x)}{\psi(x)}\to0\ $ as $|x|\to1\ $
$\ \displaystyle\lim\frac{\partial_{x_i}\psi(x)}{\psi(x)}\in\mathbb R\ $, $\ \displaystyle\lim\frac{\partial_{x_i}\partial_{x_j}\psi(x)}{\psi(x)}\in\mathbb R\ $ as $|x|\to1\ $.
Intuitively this would mean that both $\psi$ and its derivatives vanish approaching the boundary of the ball, but the derivatives vanish faster than $\psi$ (or at least not slower).
A typical example of function satisfying conditions 1.-3. is given by $$ \psi_0(x) = \begin{cases} e^{-\frac{1}{1-|x|^2}} &\textrm{ if }|x|<1 \\[2pt] 0 &\textrm{ if }|x|\geq1\end{cases} $$ but 4.,5. are clearly not satisfied by $\psi_0$ since $$ \frac{\nabla\psi_0(x)}{\psi_0(x)} \,=\, \frac{2x}{(1-|x|^2)^2}\,\xrightarrow[|x|\to1]{}\,\infty \,.$$