This question is loosely inspired by the exact cover / partition problem in computer science.
Let $X\neq \emptyset$ be a set and let ${\cal E}\subseteq {\cal P}(X)$. For $x\in X$ we let $c_{\cal E}(x) = \big|\{e\in E: x\in e\}\big|$ be the covering number of $x$ (by members of ${\cal E}$). Note that ${\cal E}$ is a partition of $X$ if and only if $c_{\cal E}(x) = 1$ for all $x\in X$. We call ${\cal E}$ a pseudo-partition if there is a unique element $x_0 \in X$ with $c_{\cal E}(x_0) = 2$ and $c_{\cal E}(x) = 1$ for all $x\in X\setminus\{x_0\}$, and we denote this exceptional element $x_0$ by $\newcommand{\exc}{\text{exc}}\exc({\cal E})$.
Question. Is there a collection ${\cal E}\subseteq {\cal P}(\mathbb{N})$ with the following properties?
- If ${\cal E}'\subseteq {\cal E}$, then ${\cal E}'$ is not a partition of $\mathbb{N}$, and
- For every $n\in\mathbb{N}$ there is a pseudo-partition ${\cal E}_n\subseteq {\cal E}$ with $\exc({\cal E}_n)=n$.