Let $G$ be a reductive group over an algebraically closed field. Fix a maximal torus $T$ and a Borel subgroup $B$ containing $T$. Let $(W,S)$ be the Coxeter system associated to $(B,T)$, where $S$ denotes the set of simple reflections. For $I\subset S$, let $W_I$ be the subgroup generated by $I$ and let $P_I$ denote the corresponding standard parabolic subgroup of $G$.
For $I,J\subset S$, the generalized Bruhat decomposition gives a natural bijection $$P_I \backslash G / P_J \simeq W_I \backslash W / W_J.$$ As a consequence, any pair $(P,Q)$ respectively of type $I$ and $J$ is conjugate to a pair $(P_I,{}^wP_J)$ for a unique $w \in {}^IW^J$ (the set ${}^IW^J$ corresponds to the elements $w\in W$ which are $I$-reduced-$J$).
For $w \in {}^IW^J$, let $\mathcal O_{I,J}(w)$ denote the $G$-orbit of $(P_I,{}^wP_J)$. It can alternatively be described using cosets as $$\mathcal O_{I,J}(w) = \{(gP_I,hP_J)\in G/P_I \times G/P_J \,|\, g^{-1}h \in P_IwP_J\}.$$ As a variety, it is irreducible and smooth.
What is $\dim(\mathcal O_{I,J}(w))$ ?
I believe that the answer should be $\ell(w) + \dim(G/P_{I\cap wJw^{-1}})$ because it would be coherent with the dimension of Deligne-Lusztig varieties (in case $k = \overline{\mathbb F_p}$). However, even though the literature on Bruhat decomposition is quite extensive, I have found myself unable to find a reference for this computation.