Concerning your follow-up question (iii) [and note that follow-up questions are generally frowned upon in this forum, better to ask a new question] there is the following very nice result: For BirkoffBirkhoff-James orthogonality it is easy to find examples where $y\perp x$ but $\left\|x\right\|/\left\|x+\alpha y\right\| > 1$ for some real $\alpha$, and so natural to investigate the largest such value $\left\|x\right\|/\left\|x+\alpha y\right\|$ over $X$. In "R. L. Thele, Some results on the radial projection in Banach spaces. Proc. Amer. Math. Soc., 42(2):484--486", it is it is shown that this quantity is exactly the Lipshitz constant for the radial projection onto the unit ball in this norm.