It seems to me that such[Edited] Such a manifold existscannot exist.
Indeed the small deformations of the "symmetric" Mukai-Umemura $3$-fold $X$ are described explicitly by Donaldson in this paper, pages 43-44. There he describes 5 classes of deformations. Classes 1,2,3 correspond to points in $H^1(X,TX)$ whose $PSL(2,C)$ orbits are closed, and the corresponding small deformations admit Kahler-Einstein metrics thanks to a theorem of Székelyhidi, see Propositions 7,8 and page 12 of this paper.
Cases 4,5 have orbits that are not closed, and do not admit Kahler-Einstein metrics thanks to Tian's argument (case 5 contains the manifold considered by Tian). These are the only possible cases where you could hope to find an example. Any such manifold has a nontrivial C* action precisely if the $PSL(2,C)$-stabilizer of the corresponding point in $H^1(X,TX)$ contains a C*.
It seems to me However one can check directly that in case 4 thisboth cases the stabilizer cannot contain any C* since having such a stabilizer would imply that the polynomial has at most two distinct roots. On the other hand, it seems to me that one could pick an example in case 5 with one root with multiplicity 5 and one root with multiplicity 3 which should have a C* in its stabilizer, and this could be your example (I might be wrong, though).