ADDED: To address your original question more directly, the expression "well known" basically means here that the fact quoted is lurking in the 1976 Deligne-Lusztig paper, especially Sections 7-8. It's easier to look at the 1985 text by R.W. Carter Finite Groups of Lie Type, which separates the algebraic group treatment somewhat from the etale cohomology framework in DL. Here you should study Chapter 7, especially 7.5. Carter writes $R_{T,\theta}$ for the virtual character DL attach to an $F$-stable maximal torus $T=T_w$ and a complex character $\theta$ of the finite group $T^F$.
The main notational complication throughout is that you deal with connected reductive groups $H$ such as $G$ and $T$, writing $\varepsilon_H = (-1)^r$ with $r$ the "relative rank" (= $\mathbb{F}_q$-rank). Now Carter's 7.3.5 and 7.5.1 develop a basic DL result: for $\theta$ in "general position", $\varepsilon_G \varepsilon_T R_{T,\theta}$ is an irreducible character of $G^F$. The proof of 7.5.1 separately treats the case when $T=T_w$ fails to lie in any proper $F$-stable parabolic, while 7.5.2 shows in general that $(-1)^{\ell(w)} = \det w = \varepsilon_G \varepsilon_T$. By unpacking the notation you get the asserted parity, as in the special case of a Coxeter element mentioned above. If $G$ is actually semisimple and split, the tori in question are anisotropic (so $\varepsilon_T =1$) while $\det w = \varepsilon_G$.