UPDATE: The counterexample failed, so let's try the proof. The same chain of changes of variable can be applied to the line $D=ar+b$. Note that $D'>0$ and $(D/r)'<0$ so the only chance to have this line to intersect the graph of $D$ more than once is to take $a,b>0$.
Thus, using the tangent line to the graph of $D$ at some positive point where concavity is violated, the problem can be restated as follows: the sum $F(r)=e^{-Ar^{-1}-Br-(A+B)}+e^{-Cr^{-1}-Dr-(C+D)}$ cannot have the value $1$, the derivative $0$ and positive second derivative at any point except the point corresponding to the case when the original $r$ is $0$. Here $B,D>0$ and $A,C$ are unrestricted.
If $A,C\le 0$, then $F$ is decreasing and the claim is trivial. So, let us assume that $C> 0$.
The nice case is when $A>0$ as well. In this case, we just need to switch to the variables $x=\frac 1{r+1}$ and $y=\frac r{r+1}$ and write $F$, $F'$ and $F''$ explicitly (differentiating with respect to $x$ instead of $r$):
$e^{-\frac Ax-\frac By}+e^{-\frac Cx-\frac Dy}=1$
$\left(\frac A{x^2}-\frac B{y^2}\right)e^{-\frac Ax-\frac By}+\left(\frac C{x^2}-\frac D{y^2}\right)e^{-\frac Cx-\frac Dy}=0$
$\left[\left(\frac A{x^2}-\frac B{y^2}\right)^2-2\left(\frac A{x^3}+\frac B{y^3}\right)\right]e^{-\frac Ax-\frac By}+\left[\left(\frac C{x^2}-\frac D{y^2}\right)^2-2\left(\frac C{x^3}+\frac D{y^3}\right)\right]e^{-\frac Cx-\frac Dy}\ge 0$
Note that the first square bracket can be non-negative only if $\max(A/x,B/y)>2$, in which case the first exponent is at most $e^{-2}$. This tells us that the second exponent is certainly above $1/e$, so $\frac Cx+\frac Dy<1$ and the cubic sum in the second square bracket beats the square of the quadratic sum even with coefficient $1$. Thus, the last inequality implies
$\left(\frac A{x^2}-\frac B{y^2}\right)^2 e^{-\frac Ax-\frac By}\ge\left(\frac C{x^3}+\frac D{y^3}\right)e^{-\frac Cx-\frac Dy}$.
Using the estimate $e^{-t}\ge 1-te^{-t}$ for $t>0$, we conclude that the first equality implies
$e^{-\frac Ax-\frac By}\ge \left(\frac C{x}+\frac D{y}\right)e^{-\frac Cx-\frac Dy}$.
Now, the second inequality certainly implies that
$\left|\frac A{x^2}-\frac B{y^2}\right|e^{-\frac Ax-\frac By}<\left(\frac C{x^2}+\frac D{y^2}\right)e^{-\frac Cx-\frac Dy}$.
Now, looking at the left hand sides, which form a geometric progression, we see that the right hand sides violate Cauchy-Schwarz, so this case is done.
In the second case $A<0$, we start with noticing that a dip on the line $F=1$ implies that $F$ takes the same value $1$ five or more times (counting with multiplicity). So, we need to show that it cannot happen. My original idea was to show that $X,Y,X^2,XY,Y^2$ is a Chebyshev system on the curve $e^{-X}+e^{-Y}=1$. This can be done (differentiating quotients and getting rid of the functions one by one, as usual) but I couldn't finish the necessary computations without Maxima and posting the resulting long expressions was certainly out of question. Finally I settled on a different change of variable.
TO BE CONTINUED...