As far as I know, a paper of Alon and Frankl "The Maximum Number of Disjoint Pairs in a Family of Subsets" (available here) contains state of the art knowledge on the problem.
Briefly outlining some of its conclusions, let me mention that for reasonably largea wide range of values of $k$ keepingkeeping the sets in $C$ supported on disjoint subsets of $[n]=\{1,2,\ldots,n\}$ works much better than keeping them individually small. For example, for even $n$ and $k=2^{n/2 +1}-1$, if we choose $C$ to consist of sets of smallest possible size than typical set in $C$ will have size $\Omega(n/\log{n})$ and two such sets almost surely intersect. On the other hand, if we choose $A$ to be the set of all subsets of $\{1,\ldots,n/2\}$, $B$ to be the set of all subsets $\{n/2+1, \ldots, n\}$ and $C =A \cup B$, then at least half of the pairs of sets in $C$ are disjoint. Solving a problem of Erdős, Alon and Frankl show that this example is essentially the best possible.