Added: I think the isogeny theorem can also fail in the case of good ordinary reduction, using the same argument. Consider again elliptic curves over $\mathbb Q_p$, now of good ordinary reduction. Let's restrict to those elliptic curves of a fixed reduction $\overline E$ over $\mathbb F_p$. We have $a_p \ne 0$, and let's assume for simplicity that the two roots of $x^2-a_p x + p$ are in $\mathbb Z_p$, so they are $u$, $pv$ with $u$, $v \in \mathbb Z_p^\times$. Then there's a basis of $M$ (the Fontaine-Laffaille object associated to $E[p^\infty]$) such that $\phi = \begin{bmatrix}u & \\ & pv\end{bmatrix}$$\phi = \begin{bmatrix}u & \\\ & pv\end{bmatrix}$. The possible choices of $M^1$ are precisely the lines generated by the vector $\begin{bmatrix} px\\ 1\end{bmatrix}$$\begin{bmatrix} px\\\ 1\end{bmatrix}$, where $x \in \mathbb Z_p$. The isomorphism class of $M$ (and thus of the Galois representation $T_p E$) only depends on the valuation of $x$, because a diagonal change of basis leaves $\phi$ invariant. But there are uncountably many $x$ of any fixed positive valuation (and thus deformations of $\overline E$ to $E$). By the above argument, these cannot all be isogenous.