The following is an answer to the original version of the question.
Your system of equations can be rewritten as follows: For integers $i$ and $j$ in $[0,n-2]$, \begin{equation} \begin{aligned} (2n r+4)f(i,j) =& f(i-1,j) + f(i,j-1) + f(i+1, j) + f(i, j+1) \\ &\text{if}\quad 0<i<i+j<n-3, \end{aligned} \tag{1}\label{1} \end{equation} \begin{equation} \begin{aligned} (2n r+3)f(i,0) &= f(i-1,0) + f(i,1) + f(i+1,0) \\ &\text{if}\quad 0<i<n-3, \end{aligned} \tag{2}\label{2} \end{equation} \begin{equation} \begin{aligned} (2n r+3)f(0,j) &= f(0,j-1) + f(1,j) + f(0,j+1) \\ &\text{if}\quad 0<j<n-3, \end{aligned} \tag{3}\label{3} \end{equation} \begin{equation} \begin{aligned} (2n r+2)f(0,0) &= f(1, 0) + f(0,1), \end{aligned} \tag{4}\label{4} \end{equation} \begin{equation} \begin{aligned} f(i,n-2-i) = 1 \quad\text{if}\quad 0\le i\le n-2, \end{aligned} \tag{5}\label{5} \end{equation} where $n:=N$ and $r:=(1-\lambda)/\lambda\in(0,\infty)$. Note that, if $n=5$, then condition \eqref{1} is vacuous.
Already for $n=6$, there are infinitely many solutions of the linear system \eqref{1}--\eqref{5}. These solutions are given by the following: \begin{equation} \begin{aligned} f(0,4)&=1\\ f(1,0)&=(12 r+2) f(0,0)-f(0,1)\\ f(1,1)&=(12 r+3) f(0,1)-f(0,0)-f(0,2)\\ f(1,2)&=(12 r+3) f(0,2)-f(0,1)-f(0,3)\\ f(1,3)&=1\\ f(2,0)&=(12 r+3) f(1,0)-f(0,0)-f(1,1)\\ f(2,1)&=(12 r+4) f(1,1)-f(0,1)-f(1,0)-f(1,2)\\ f(2,2)&=1\\ f(3,0)&=(12 r+3)f(2,0)-f(1,0)-f(2,1)\\ f(3,1)&=1\\ f(4,0)&=1 \end{aligned} \tag{6}\label{6} \end{equation} We see that, of the the $15$ variables $f(i,j)$ (for $n=6$), the four variables $f(0,0),f(0,1),f(0,2),f(0,3)$ are "free", in the sense that one can give $f(0,0),f(0,1),f(0,2),f(0,3)$ any values and then compute the corresponding values of the remaining $15-4=11$ variables according to \eqref{6}.