The $n$-forgetfulnesforgetfulness property also implies that for any $s \in \Sigma^{\geq n}$ there must be paths starting at every vertex in $V$ and by following edges corresponding to the colours of $s$ all end up at the same vertex.
Does there exist ana subgraph of $H$ on the same set of vertices such that every vertex has exactly one outgoing edge in each colour such that all recurrent vertices correspond to single element subsets in $V$?
Note that this question is decidable (You can start with the single-vertex subsets and add other subsets one by one if they have a 0-edge and a 1-edge to existing subsets.) and needs to be answered positively for the forgetfulforgetfulness property to hold.
By considering the paths starting at the vertex $V \in V'$, we can observe that this corresponds to an algorithm forget the current state in $m$ steps, where $m$ can be chosen to be any number at least the length of the longest path to a single-vertex state. We want to use this algorithm to ensure $n$-forgetfulness. However, the problem is that if two strings become equal, they have to start this forgetting process at the same time.