One thing to do is to try to express these in terms of squares. Note that $$12x(3x-1)=36x^2-12x=(6x-1)^2-1$$ so that your equations become $$a_1^2+b_1^2=c_1^2+1$$ and $$a_1^2-b_1^2=d_1^2-1$$ where $a_1=6a-1$ etc. Then the variables $a_1$ etc are constrained to be congruent to $5$ modulo $6$.
Homogenizing these gives $$X^2+Y^2=Z^2+T^2$$ and $$X^2-Y^2=Z^2-T^2.$$ SerachingSearching for rational solutions of your equation is essentially looking for rational points on the intersection of these two quadrics in $\mathbf{P}^3$. In general the intersection of two quadrics in $\mathbf{P}^3$ is an elliptic curve, so it looks like your problem will boil down to something like finding the integer points on an elliptic curve.
Added There's a blunder in the above: I must thank Fedor for noticing that the second equation should be $$X^2-Y^2=W^2-T^2.$$ So the variety is the intersection of two quadrics in $\mathbf{P}^4$. Hartshorne mentions in passing that in general this construction gives a del Pezzo surface. Del Pezzo surfaces are rational so there should be a birational parametrizion (in terms of two affine parameters) of the rational solutions to the original pair of equations.