So in terms of the 4-tuples defining $<_L$, the $<_L$-least Cohen generic $c$ has tuple $(\alpha,1,\{\alpha\},k)$$(\alpha+1,1,\{\alpha\},k)$ for some $k<\omega$.
Assuming that $<_L\upharpoonright M$ is $M$-compatible (meaning that $(M,{<_L\upharpoonright M})$ is a model of ZFC, in the expanded language with the predicate $<_L\upharpoonright M$), we want to deduce that $M$ can understand enough about $\pi$ for a contradiction. That is, for $\beta\in\alpha\backslash\omega$ let $c_\beta=c\cup\{\beta\}$. Then note that $c_\beta$ has tuple $(\alpha,1,\{\alpha\},k_\beta)$$(\alpha+1,1,\{\alpha\},k_\beta)$ for some $k_\beta<\omega$ (using here the surjection $\pi:\omega\to L_\alpha$ mentioned above). But the class $C=\{c_\beta\bigm|\beta\in[\omega,\alpha)\}\subseteq M$ is definable over $M$, so if $<_L\upharpoonright M$ is $M$-compatible, then $<_L\upharpoonright C$ is too. But this is an ordering of $\mathrm{OR}^M\backslash\omega$ in ordertype $\omega$, which is impossible.