Another expression for the constant. Note that you may also be willing to forget about the expressions in terms of class numbers and Dedekind zeta functions (which bears a lot of arithmetics) and look for a more geometric expression. This is provided for instance in Chambert-Loir-Tschinkel where the leading constant is rephrased essentially as a height zeta integral (see their Theorem 1.3.1, I try to be consistent with my notations above) $$\int_{V(\mathbb{A}_K)} h(x)^{-a} dx$$ for a certain suitablesuitably normalized Tamagawa measure $dx$. Recall that $a$ is the growth order in the counting law.
A glimpse to the second question. What I said above already gives you a whole bunch of analogous phenomenonphenomena: zeta functions are generating functions, hence their residues naturally appear in counting laws for the underlying objects.