Let $F:[0,\infty) \to [0,\infty)$ be a $C^1$ strictly convex function.
Let $\lambda_n \in [0,1],a_n\le c<b_n \in [0,\infty)$ satisfy $$ \lambda_n a_n +(1-\lambda_n)b_n=c_n \tag{1}$$ and assume that $c_n \to ֿ\infty$. (which implies $b_n \to ֿ\infty$). $c>0$ is just some constant, to make $a_n$ bounded.
Set $D_n=\lambda_nF(a_n)+(1-\lambda_n)F(b_n)-F\big(c_n\big) $, and assume that $\lim_{n \to \infty}D_n=0$
Question: Does $\lambda_n \to 0$?
My intuition is that even if $F$ becomes "less convex" (closer to being affine) when $x \to \infty$, then we cannot put to much weight on the $a_n$-since otherwise we get hit by the "convexity gap" between $a_n$ and $b_n$ by a non-negligible amount, which should make $D_n$ large.
Edit:
This is an attempt to understand Ron P's answer:
Assume by contradiction that $\lambda_n \not\to 0$. Then by passing to subsequences we can assume that $ a_n \to a , \lambda_n \to \lambda \in (0,1]$. Recall that $b_n,c_n \to \infty$.We have We replace$D(a_n,c_n,b_n)=\lambda_n F(a_n)+(1-\lambda_n)F( b_n)-F(c_n)$, where $(1)$ by $ \lambda_n a +(1-\lambda_n) b_n=\tilde c_n$$ \lambda_n a_n +(1-\lambda_n) b_n=c_n$.
DefineSimilarly, $D(a,c_n,b_n)=\tilde \lambda_n F(a)+(1-\tilde \lambda_n)F( b_n)-F(c_n)$, where $\tilde D_n=\lambda_n F(a)+(1-\lambda_n)F( b_n)-F\big(\tilde c_n\big) $$ \tilde\lambda_n a +(1-\tilde \lambda_n) b_n=\tilde c_n$.
We want to proveSuppose that $D_n \to 0$$a_n \to a$. (This implies $\tilde D_n \to 0$$\lambda_n-\tilde \lambda_n \to 0$). We have
$D_n-\tilde D_n=\lambda_n \big(F(a_n)-F(a)\big)+\big(F(\tilde c_n)-F(c_n)\big)$.$$D(a_n,c_n,b_n)-D(a,c_n,b_n)=\lambda_n F(a_n)-\tilde \lambda_n F(a)+(\tilde \lambda_n-\lambda_n)F(b_n). \tag{2}$$ The first term tends to zero, since $F(a_n) \to F(a)$ and $\lambda_n-\tilde \lambda_n \to 0$.
The problem is that I am not sure howWhy does the second term tend to prove that $F(\tilde c_n)-F(c_n) \to 0$, since $c_n,\tilde c_n$ are unbounded. Ifzero? we don't have control over $M:=\sup \{ F'(x) \, | \, x \in [0,\infty) \}< \infty$$F(b_n)$, then $|F(\tilde c_n)-F(c_n)| \le M|c_n-\tilde c_n| \to 0$. But what happens when $F'(x) \to \infty$ when $x \to \infty$right?