Theorem: The category of co-group objects in the category of groups is equivalent to the category of sets and partial map between then, or equivalently to the category of pointed sets..
(Thanks to Martin Brandenbourgh for pointing out the mistake in an earlier version)
An easy calculation shows that the generators and the units (Edit: that's were the mistake was) are the only elements such that $\mu(y)=y^L*y^R$ and hence that any cogroup morphism comes from a partial function between sets. So the only co-group morphisms are the ones sending generators: each generator is sent either to generatorsa generator or to the unit.
And with a bit more work, as nicely explained on this other MO answer, one can check that any cogroup object is of this form.
As pointed out by Martin Brandenbourgh in his answer - once we have the category of set and partial maps, (or equivalently the category of pointed sets) one can easily characterize the category of sets and map in purely categorical language: this is the (non-full) subcategory containing all objects and whose maps are the $f:X \to Y$ such that the square obtained by adding the maps $0 \to X$ and $0\to Y$ (where $0$ is the initial object) is a pullback square.
So let's call this the category of "cogroup objects and total maps between them" (were by total, I mean the map that satisfies this pullback condition)
Now, as all this is a theorem of $\sf{ETCS}$, it is a theorem of $\sf{ETCG}$ that all the axioms (and theorems) of $\sf{ETCS}$ are satisfied by the category of cogroup"cogroup objects and total maps between them" in any model of $\sf{ETCG}$, which gives you the desired bi-interpretability between $\sf{ETCS}$ and $\sf{ETCG}$. Adding supplementary axioms to $\sf{ETCS}$ (like R) does not change anything.
Corollary: Given $T$ a model of $\sf{ETCS}$, then $Grp(T)$ is a model of $\sf{ETCG}$. Given $A$ a model of $\sf{ETCG}$, then the category $CoGrp(A)$$CoGrp(A)^{total}$ of cogroups object and full map between them is a model of $\sf{ETCS}$. Moreover these two constructions are inverse to each other up to equivalence of categories.