Selinger ("A survery of graphical languages for monoidal categories", 2009) defines a "spacial monoidal category" as one that satisifies the following string-diagram axiom
Or textually as sayingThis diagram says that for every $h : I \to I$ and object $A$, $$ \rho_A \circ (\text{id}_A \otimes h) \circ \rho^{-1}_A = \lambda_A \circ (h \otimes \text{id}_A) \circ \lambda_A^{-1}$$$$ \rho_A \circ (\text{id}_A \otimes h) \circ \rho^{-1}_A = \lambda_A \circ (h \otimes \text{id}_A) \circ \lambda_A^{-1},$$ where $\lambda_A$ and $\rho_A$ are the left and right unitors.
What is an example of a monoidal category that is not spacial by this definition?