Since in the comments you seem drawn to the "charts" approach to orbifolds, here are some resources which give definitions and more (there is no "official definition" as far as I know):
- Joan Porti has some nice slides on orbifolds.
- Here is a link to Thurston's notes on the topic.
- Here is a link to a book by Adem, Leida, Ruan which discusses, among many other things, orbifold vector bundles.
- Here is a link to the first paper defining orbifolds ("V-manifolds") by Sakake: On a generalization of a notion of manifold (1956).
With regard to your specific query about moduli space, you can read all about it in A Primer on Mapping Class Groups. For example, they prove:
"For $g \ge 1$, the space $\mathcal{M}_g$ is an aspherical orbifold and is finitely covered by an aspherical manifold."
I would also recommend reading some answers to past MO questions about orbifolds, with regard to your question "how much can you ignore it":
- Orbifold fundamental group in terms of loops?
- What is meant by smooth orbifold?
- How should one understand orbifold fundamental groups?
- What tools cannot work for orbifolds?
Lastly, Suhyoung Choi has a paper Geometric structures on Orbifolds and Holonomy Representations, which utilizes Thurston's point-of-view (which might interest you).