We have a set of elements $S=\{1,2,3, . . . , N\}$ and family $F$ of $N$ triples of elements in $S$ ($N$ is a multiple of 3). Each element of $S$ appears in exactly three triples. The elements in each triple are distinct. The intersection of two triples $T_1, T_2$ is either empty or has exactly two elements ( $|T_1 \cap T_2|=2$). I guess this should be a well known combinatorial object.
What is the number of such family of triples for each N?
I encountered this object in constructing special instances of exact cover problem. Some of the families have exact cover.
Update: I found a counterexample to the characterization given by Paseman's answer :
Take triples [9,8,6], [2,3,5],[9,7,6],[1,4,5],[1,4,8],[7,3,2],[2,5,1],[6,3,7],[4,8,9]. This is not a disjoint union of tetrahedra.