It remains to prove the claim. Let $l=n-k$. Let $e_1, \ldots, e_k, f_1, \ldots, f_l$ be a basis of eigenvectors for $g$. We may assume that the first $k$ vectors are a basis for the subspace ${\mathbb C}^k$ fixed by $g$, and the lastlet $l$ vectors are a basis for${\mathbb C}^l$ be the orthogonal complement of ${\mathbb C}^k$. Let in $\mu_1, \ldots, \mu_k, \nu_1, \ldots, \nu_l$ be the corresponding eigenvalues$\mathbb C^n$. By assumption, eachConsider the eigenspace decomposition of $\mu_i$$g$. One eigenspace is equal to${\mathbb C}^k$, with associated eigenvalue $1$. The remaining eigenspaces form an orthogonal decomposition of ${\mathbb C}^l$, and each $\nu_j$ is atheir eigenvalues are unit complex numbernumbers different from $1$.
A point in a small open neighborhood ofWe may identify $g$ in $U(n)$ is determined by the following data: an ordered $n$-tuple of pairwise orthogonal lines that are close to the lines spanned by the eigenvectors, together with corresponding eigenvalues, that are close enough to the corresponding eigenvalues of $g$. In particular we always assume that the last $l$ eigenvalues are all different fromelement $1$. A point in the neighborhood belongs to$(e_k,g_l)\in U(k)\times \{g_l\}$ where $\mathcal D$ if and only if at least one of$e_k$ is the first $k$ eigenvalues equals $1$. Thinking of $g$ as an elementidentity of $U(k)\times \{g_l\}$, where$U(k)$ and $g_l$ is the restriction of $g$ to the orthogonal complement of ${\mathbb C}^k$,${\mathbb C}^l$. Since it is clear thata submanifold, $g$ has a product neighborhood of the form $U\times V$,$V_1\times V_2$ where $U$$V_1$ is ana sufficiently small open neighborhood of the identity in $U(k)$, and $V\cong {\mathbb R}^{n^2-k^2}$$V_2\cong{\mathbb R}^{n^2-k^2}$ is determined by the normal bundlea small tubular neighborhood of $U(k)\times\{g_l\}$$V_1$ in $U(n)$. Whether a point in the neighborhood belongsWe want to understand the intersection of $V_1\times V_2$ with $\mathcal D$ is determined by. Consider the eigenspace decomposition of an element of $V_1\times V_2$. It will have eigenspaces of two types: some are very close to ${\mathbb C}^k$ and some are very close to $\mathbb C^l$. The eigevalues of first type are unit complex numbers close to $k$ eigenvalues$1$, so it is a condition thatand eigenvalues of second type are unit complex numbers distinct from $1$. The element belongs to $\mathcal D$ if an only depends onif at least one of the eigenvalues of first factor in the producttype equals $U\times V$$1$. From here, I think it is easy to see from here that the intersectionan element of $U\times V\cap {\mathcal D}\cong (U\cap {\mathcal D})\times V$$V_1\times V_2$ belongs to $\mathcal D$ if an only if its $V_1$ complonent belongs to $\mathcal D_k$. It follows that $(V_1\times V_2)\cap {\mathcal D}= (V_1\cap {\mathcal D}_k)\times V_2\cong U_k\times {\mathbb R}^{n^2-k^2}$, which is what we wanted to know.