Those conditions alone don't determine a quasitriangular structure.

An old paper of Radford's shows that the quasitriangular structure conditions for a finite dimensional Hopf algebra $H$ define Hopf algebra homomorphisms from $H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$. This is obtained by considering the obvious linear injection $H\otimes H\to \operatorname{Hom}_{k}(H^*,H)$.

Theorem 2.1 of this paper classifies all such Hopf morphisms in the case where $H=D(G)$ is the double of a finite group. In Theorem 5.3 necessary and sufficient conditions are given for such a morphism to define a quasi-triangular structure. Example 4.2 yields a class of Hopf morphisms that satisfy both of your conditions but do not yield quasitriangular structures. It should be relatively easy to extract from Theorem 2.1 the conditions that control algebra versus coalgebra structures, and so help you construct examples which are algebra but not coalgebra morphisms or the other way around. Possibly you may need a computer for this, but I can see no reason why such should not exist for some group $G$.

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Actually, on further thought, we don't even need to go that far. Consider $H=k^G$, the linear dual of the finite group $G$ with the usual Hopf algebra structure. Then the coalgebra morphisms $f\colon H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$ are in bijective correspondence with set maps $f\colon G\to \widehat{G}$, where $\widehat{G}$ is the group of $k$-linear characters of $G$. For such an $f$ setting $$ R= \sum_{g\in G} e_g\otimes f(g),$$ then $f$ coalgebra is equivalent to the second braid relation $\operatorname{id}\otimes\Delta(R) = R_{13}R_{12},$ but $R$ satisfies the first braid relation if and only if $f$ is an algebra map. So you need only choose a set map $f\colon G\to\widehat{G}$ (sending the identity to the trivial character, even) which is not an algebra map. As long as $\widehat{G}\neq 1$ this can always be done.

Those conditions alone don't determine a quasitriangular structure.

An old paper of Radford's shows that the quasitriangular structure conditions for a finite dimensional Hopf algebra $H$ define Hopf algebra homomorphisms from $H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$. This is obtained by considering the obvious linear injection $H\otimes H\to \operatorname{Hom}_{k}(H^*,H)$.

Theorem 2.1 of this paper classifies all such Hopf morphisms in the case where $H=D(G)$ is the double of a finite group. In Theorem 5.3 necessary and sufficient conditions are given for such a morphism to define a quasi-triangular structure. Example 4.2 yields a class of Hopf morphisms that satisfy both of your conditions but do not yield quasitriangular structures. It should be relatively easy to extract from Theorem 2.1 the conditions that control algebra versus coalgebra structures, and so help you construct examples which are algebra but not coalgebra morphisms or the other way around. Possibly you may need a computer for this, but I can see no reason why such should not exist for some group $G$.

EDIT:

Actually, on further thought, we don't even need to go that far. Consider $H=k^G$, the linear dual of the finite group $G$ with the usual Hopf algebra structure. Then the coalgebra morphisms $f\colon H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$ are in bijective correspondence with set maps $f\colon G\to \widehat{G}$, where $\widehat{G}$ is the group of $k$-linear characters of $G$. For such an $f$ setting $$ R= \sum_{g\in G} e_g\otimes f(g),$$ then $f$ coalgebra is equivalent to the second braid relation $\operatorname{id}\otimes\Delta(R) = R_{13}R_{12},$ but $R$ satisfies the first braid relation if and only if $f$ is an (anti-)algebra map. So you need only choose a set map $f\colon G\to\widehat{G}$ (sending the identity to the trivial character, even) which is not an algebra map. As long as $\widehat{G}\neq 1$ this can always be done.

On the other hand (and dually, in this case), any algebra map $f\colon H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$ dualizes to a coalgebra map $kG\to k^{G}$, and we can again pick any set map $f\colon G\to \widehat{G}$ (preserving the identity) which is not an algebra map to find an element $R$ which satisfies the first braid relation but not the second.

Those conditions alone don't determine a quasitriangular structure.

An old paper of Radford's shows that the quasitriangular structure conditions for a finite dimensional Hopf algebra $H$ define Hopf algebra homomorphisms from $H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$. This is obtained by considering the obvious linear injection $H\otimes H\to \operatorname{Hom}_{k}(H^*,H)$.

Theorem 2.1 of this paper classifies all such Hopf morphisms in the case where $H=D(G)$ is the double of a finite group. In Theorem 5.3 necessary and sufficient conditions are given for such a morphism to define a quasi-triangular structure. Example 4.2 yields a class of Hopf morphisms that satisfy both of your conditions but do not yield quasitriangular structures. It should be relatively easy to extract from Theorem 2.1 the conditions that control algebra versus coalgebra structures, and so help you construct examples which are algebra but not coalgebra morphisms or the other way around. Possibly you may need a computer for this, but I can see no reason why such should not exist for some group $G$.

Those conditions alone don't determine a quasitriangular structure.

An old paper of Radford's shows that the quasitriangular structure conditions for a finite dimensional Hopf algebra $H$ define Hopf algebra homomorphisms from $H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$. This is obtained by considering the obvious linear injection $H\otimes H\to \operatorname{Hom}_{k}(H^*,H)$.

Theorem 2.1 of this paper classifies all such Hopf morphisms in the case where $H=D(G)$ is the double of a finite group. In Theorem 5.3 necessary and sufficient conditions are given for such a morphism to define a quasi-triangular structure. Example 4.2 yields a class of Hopf morphisms that satisfy both of your conditions but do not yield quasitriangular structures. It should be relatively easy to extract from Theorem 2.1 the conditions that control algebra versus coalgebra structures, and so help you construct examples which are algebra but not coalgebra morphisms or the other way around. Possibly you may need a computer for this, but I can see no reason why such should not exist for some group $G$.

EDIT:

Actually, on further thought, we don't even need to go that far. Consider $H=k^G$, the linear dual of the finite group $G$ with the usual Hopf algebra structure. Then the coalgebra morphisms $f\colon H^{*\text{cop}}\to H$ are in bijective correspondence with set maps $f\colon G\to \widehat{G}$, where $\widehat{G}$ is the group of $k$-linear characters of $G$. For such an $f$ setting $$ R= \sum_{g\in G} e_g\otimes f(g),$$ then $f$ coalgebra is equivalent to the second braid relation $\operatorname{id}\otimes\Delta(R) = R_{13}R_{12},$ but $R$ satisfies the first braid relation if and only if $f$ is an algebra map. So you need only choose a set map $f\colon G\to\widehat{G}$ (sending the identity to the trivial character, even) which is not an algebra map. As long as $\widehat{G}\neq 1$ this can always be done.