Lemma. Fix $n$ and $m$. Consider pairs of partitions $(\lambda,\mu)$ such that $\lambda$ has $m$ parts and $|\lambda|+|\mu|=m$$|\lambda|+|\mu|=n$. Let $A$ be the number of pairs for which $\max(\lambda)>\max(\mu)$ (where $\max(\emptyset)=-\infty$). Let $B$ be number of pairs for which $\lambda$ satisfies this condition with Durfee square, which we may rephrase as '$\lambda_i=i$ for some $i$, where $\lambda=(\lambda_1\geqslant \lambda_2\geqslant \dots)$'. Then $A=B$.