By reconsidering facts I've come to the conclusion that there might be several morphisms to be used in categories with binary relations $ R\subseteq X\times Y$, eventually depending on the interpretation of the objects. $\require{AMScd}$ \begin{CD} X @>M_1>> X'\\ @VRV V ?@VV R\,'V\\ Y @>>M_2> Y' \end{CD}
Alternative morphisms:
- Two arbitrary relations $M_1,M_2$, that does not preserve anything.
- Two arbitrary functions $M_1,M_2$, that does not preserve anything.
- Two relations $M_1,M_2$ such that $(x,x')\in M_1\wedge(y,y')\in M_2\Rightarrow [(x,y)\in R\Rightarrow (x',y')\in R']$
- Two functions $M_1,M_2$ such that $(x,y)\in R\Rightarrow (M_1(x),M_2(y))\in R'$
- An arbitrary relation $\rho\subset R\times R'$
- An arbitrary function $f\subset R\times R'$
- $M_1$ and $M_2$ are such that $M_2\circ R\circ M_1^{op}=R'$, that is the diagram is commutative for reversed arrow with $M_1^{op}$. (7 implies 3).
- $M_2\circ R\subseteq R'\circ M_1$
- Commutative diagram. (If $M_1$ and $M_2$ are functions all alternatives except 1 gives commutative diagrams).
There are even some more, but perhaps also some of the conditions are equivalent.
In Abstract and Concrete Categories (p. 22) the category of binary relations $R\subseteq X\times X$ on a set $X$ is called Rel and have morphisms in accordance with 4.