By the comments of abx you only need an answer to question $3$. You get easily an answer if you assume the results in the classical book of Beauville on algebraic surfaces.
Namely, if a surface $S$ is uniruled, then you can solve the indeterminacy (Theorem II.7) and get a dominant morphism $X \rightarrow S$ where $X$ is birational to a product $C \times {\mathbb P}^1$. It follows, by Proposition III.20, that (being birational to a surface with vanishing plurigenera) all plurigenera of $X$ vanish,. The argument of the proof of the same proposition applied to the dominant map $X \rightarrow S$ show that $P_n(S) \leq P_n(X)$ and that'stherefore all you needplurigenera of $S$ vanish too. Indeed
Then, if $q=0$, the result follows by Castelnuovo rationality criterion. For the irregular ($q>0$) case, Beuville shows, (Proposition VI.15.(1)) that, if the surface is not ruled, then either $P_4 \neq 0$ or $P_6 \neq 0$.
Of course all the mentioned results are highly non trivial, but all proofs are in Beauville's book.