My initial answer was wrong. Instead of completely deleting it, I left it at the bottom of the post. I use notation now that slightly differ from my original post.
As before, I give only a partial answer related to the max eigenvalue question and the limsup. Recall that the tail estimates for the max eigenvalue is $$(P(\lambda_1(n) >2\sqrt{n}+tn^{-1/6})\sim e^{-Ct^{3/2}}$$ (see e.g. Ledoux's reviews or http://math.univ-lyon1.fr/~aubrun/recherche/smalldeviations/smalldeviations.pdf).
Now, the question is what is the scale in which the recentered and rescaled maximal eigenvalues start behaving like independent random variables. In my original post I essentially claimed this starts happening at scale roughly $n$. This is wrong: the correct scale is given by the so-called GUE minor process (described by Baryshnikov in 2001). Relevant to Gil's problem is the scaling limit computed by Forrester and Nagao: http://arxiv.org/pdf/0801.0100.pdf. They show that the correct scaling in $n^{2/3}$, that is that the (centered and rescaled) maximal eigenvalues of the GUE(n) and GUE(m) decorelate if $m-n>>n^{2/3}$ and are strongly correlated in $m-n<<n^{2/3}$. Using that, and Borel Cantelli, one gets the correct scale. The limsup can be taken over the sequence $a_n=n^3$ instead of $n$. If you go over that sequence, you get from Borel-Cantelli that you cannot exceed $t_{a_n}a_n^{-1/6}$ infinitely often as long as $$\sum_n e^{-C t_{a_n}^{3/2}}<\infty.$$ This will happen as soon as $t_{a_n}^{3/2}>C'\log n$, i.e. $t_{a_n}\sim C'' (\log n)^{2/3}$. Unravelling the definitions, this will give you an upper bound on the limsup that is $t_n\sim (\log n)^{2/3}$; that is, this will show that the function $F(n)$ is at most $C (\log n)^{2/3}/n^{1/6}$. The lower bound on the limsup will follows a similar pattern, using the asymptotic independence stated above, and will give the same function $F(n)$. One can also compute constants (for the a.s. convergence) in the same manner.
Filling in the details in the above is beyond a mathoverflow answer, I may return to it in detail later.
I speculate that the liminf will use the lower tail estimates, which are of the form $e^{-Ct^{3})}$. Working with the same argument would then give $(\log n)^{1/3}/n^{1/6}$ as the correct scaling.
OLD (WRONG) POST:
The following is a partial answer with some hints on how to complete it; I may revisit it later with more details. The answer below refers to the max eigenvalue question, to the limsup, and does not attempt to get the constants, only the scale.